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military families and children are often invisible to the general public and in the media. it is our mission to properly represent this diverse community and increase awareness of this proud community so they will be properly represented to the general public. you will find stories and my personal commentary here, that might be difficult to find in the mass media. We do have a bias here in that we are in support of children and, frankly, we don't consider any adult's ideology or opinion important enough to rationalize the harm or abuse of a child. the military community is a community of action, where everyone is our neighbor and we can never be isolated from the problems of the world.

at booksforbrats.net, we honor the unique sacrifice of military families and their children and offer gratitude, support and understanding. If you do not share that perspective, you may not appreciate the opinions expressed here, but we encourage you to take the opportunity to hear an alternative viewpoint from military families.

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Katrina & Rita Hurricane Relief

I'm so saddened for the 4 states so brutally impacted by Katrina. I'm especially in awe of the many Active Duty, National Guard & Reservist families there whose soldiers are serving in Afghanistan and Iraq, and now finding themselves on a rescue mission in their own home statesNot to mention the incredible work of our Coast Guard. Let's all do what we can to help! Kudos to Morgan Freeman! A resident of Mississippi, he is also my hero for being one of the first celebrities to organize a benefit!

"It's sort of well-known that anytime any catastrophe happens anywhere in the world, they can count on the United States for help," Freeman told The Associated Press in a phone interview."Now, charity begins at home, so we call on anybody who has even the thought [of giving] to get beyond the thought and help these people," the 68-year-old actor said.

HELP NOW!

Extreme Home Makeover- Rodriguez Family

The Rodriguez's, a military family, were surprised with a new home on the latest episode of Extreme Home Makeover. They were an awesome example of a military family. Dedicated to service, compassionate and community-minded, I am sure it was an honor for the program and all its volunteers to give back to this wonderful soldier, wounded in Iraq, and his incredible family! Mrs. Rodriguez, is even using her experience as the wife of a wounded soldier, to reach out to others as she studies for her masters in social work.

The family was the first I've seen on the show thank the volunteers first before rushing to their house. Even the children were grateful to the contractors and hugged them to show their gratitude. The father stopped to recognize the sacrifice of his fellow soldiers and asked us all to be mindful of the sacrifice that makes our lives possible. It was wonderful to see an honest and respectful portrayal of a military family on network tv! And, most importantly, it was wonderful to see a family who expects so little for all their sacrifice, be shown such thanks and gratitude. You really got the feeling they were much more grateful for that, than just the "stuff".

Military Kids & In-state Tuition Benefits

Michelle's Husband Comments on Lou Dobbs

1/20/05  At the Red, White & Blue Inaugural Ball for Heroes.  This was the only Inaugural Event to Honor and Benefit our soldiers wounded in Iraq. We were honored to celebrate with wounded soldiers from Walter Reed and Bethesda.  Ben Stein, was amongst the speakers. Ben's speech, reflected his deep respect for the commitment of our soldiers and their incredible sacrifice and skill.  He compared our troops to the world's real ROCK STARS and I couldn't agree more. I guess that's why I stopped representing Rock Stars and began committing my time to who I view as the world's real American Idols. I suppose I could really relate to Mr. Stein's disillusionment with people who really couldn't see beyond themselves and their very small world. Read on for more reasons why I love him and think Ben Stein is a total genius: 

How Can Someone Who Lives in Insane Luxury Be a Star in Today's World? http://www.eonline.com/Gossip/Morton/Archive/2003/031220.html 

8/30/2004

since the military defends our democracy, let's support their right to participate in it! hopefully new programs will help make some headway for soldiers and families abroad!

Some soldiers unable to vote

Secretary of State Matt Blunt is considering whether e-mail is an option for those serving overseas.

August 10, 2004

JEFFERSON CITY — Some Missouri soldiers stationed in Iraq were unable to vote in last week’s elections because of trouble getting absentee ballots.

As a result, Secretary of State Matt Blunt’s office said Monday that it is exploring whether overseas soldiers could e-mail their ballots for the Nov. 2 general election. Blunt is awaiting a determination from the Department of Defense, spokesman Spence Jackson said.

The possibility of e-mailed ballots was brought to Blunt’s attention by Rep. Jim Avery, R-Crestwood, a combat engineer stationed in Iraq with the National Guard’s 1140th Engineering Battalion.

In a telephone interview , Avery said none of the 21 soldiers in his squad received absentee ballots in time to vote in the Aug. 3 primary elections. Some never received ballots at all, he said. The few who did had no access to a fax machine and not enough time remaining to mail them back, Avery said.

“I feel like I was disenfranchised as a voter,” said Avery, who got his ballot about a week before the election and never sent it back. “I’m keeping it as a souvenir, as a reminder to me when I get back of the legislation that needs to be filed to take care of the situation for the future.”

Avery is from St. Louis County. Of the 795 military absentee ballots mailed out from St. Louis County, just 317 were returned by election day, said David Welch, a county election director, who did not know the reason for the response rate.

Many of the other soldiers in Avery’s Farmington-based squad are from St. Francois County.

St. Francois County Clerk Mark Hedrick said absentee ballots were mailed about a week later than usual because of the uncertainty over whether an amendment banning gay marriage would appear on the August ballot. The Supreme Court eventually said it should.

Hedrick said his office mailed 13 absentee ballots to Iraq, but none were returned with votes. Eight were returned to the clerk’s office as undeliverable, and Hedrick then was told to send the ballots to the unit’s Farmington office — but only a few days remained until the election.

Other than Avery’s e-mail, the secretary of state’s office had not received other reports of military members unable to vote, Jackson said.

Military urged to vote

By: Kathleen T. Rhem , American Forces Press Service

08/26/2004

Washington (NNS) - Defense officials are committed to ensuring military members have the ability to vote from anywhere in the world, DoD's top personnel officer said.

"We're making a decided effort to make sure everyone gets the chance to vote," said David S. C. Chu, undersecretary for personnel and readiness, in an interview with American Forces Press Service and the Pentagon Channel.
Voting assistance officers are available on military installations and in units to assist service members in finding information for their home states and districts. These officers can help them register to vote and request absentee ballots.
The U.S. Postal Service has committed to sending voting materials to and from military members overseas via express mail, Chu said. "This year the post office is going to expedite the movement of absentee ballots to help us be sure they get out there in time and to get back and get counted," he said.
DoD has designated two specific weeks to raise awareness of issues facing military voters specifically, and more generally, everyone who must vote by absentee ballot. The week-plus timeframe Sept. 3 to 11, which includes Labor Day, has been designated Armed Forces Voters Week. Columbus Day week, Oct. 11 to 15, will be Absentee Voting Week.
A Defense Department spokesman explained voting assistance officers will redouble their efforts to get information to potential voters during these weeks. Commanders and supervisors will also highlight the importance of voting and options available to troops.
"We want to bring to light the availability of services provided to assist military members and their family members," the spokesman said.
Chu said a good source of information is the Web site of the Federal Voting Assistance Program (FVAP). The site includes links to absentee voting rules for all states and jurisdictions.
From this site, potential voters can fill out and submit an online version of the Federal Post Card Application, which allows individuals to register to vote or request an absentee ballot from nearly all U.S. jurisdictions.
Finally, Chu said, people should be aware they can use a Federal Write-in Absentee Ballot to vote in congressional and presidential elections if they don't receive their absentee ballots in time. Information on using this form is also available on the FVAP Web site.
"You can (use this form) if you're a registered voter," Chu said. "And that is one of your last-ditch options."

 

 

8/29/2004

Message to the Swift Boat Veterans and all Vietnam Veterans and their Families:

 

i wrote my books for children of our soldiers because after witnessing 9/11 (i live in nyc), my first thoughts went to the soldiers and their families. i knew our military would be called to defend our country. i knew our soldiers and their families would be called to make sacrifices. and i knew, almost as certainly, that our soldiers and their families would be invisible to the media and politicans, except as they chose to USE them to make their own political points.
 
it was devastating to me to hear adults referring to soldiers like my vietnam veteran father (brig. gen. (r) michael l. ferguson) as"babykillers" whether on tv or on the street.
 
my story is not unique.  many children and family members of veterans suffered at the hands of those who made abusive comments about our loved ones and treated us as second class citizens.  soldiers and their families are used to sacrifice and don't ask for applause or recognition, but neither do they deserve the abuse and disrespect of their neighbors and leaders.
 
i realized that i couldn't stop the ignorance or hate speech toward our troops or their families, but i could present a positive message that let families and children know they weren't alone. and provide a positive reflection in the media (even in something as simple as a children's book) for their experience, instead of being either invisible, a pawn or a target.
 
after i wrote the books, i, surprisingly, heard from many children of vietnam veterans like myself who were finally addressing and coping with their feelings about how america handled the service of our loved ones and their lack of support for the soldiers and their families or the shame they were made to feel about their parent's honorable service.
 
thank you for getting our veterans' voices out to the media! i'm, sadly, not surprised at the response. people are still not respectful about hearing the stories of veterans, but you are making great strides toward making it an issue americans can't ignore!
 
your work is very important. we must honor ALL our soldier's service, not just the few who seek power.
 
please take the time to check out my website if you like. it serves as a community for educators, parents and children of military personnel http://www.booksforbrats.net/ . also, if you'd like to read more of my statements to the press regarding issues of media representation and military families please go to http://www.booksforbrats.net/hero/bratblog/bratblog.htm.
 
thank you for your efforts!

 

 

8/22/2004

VH-1's Soundtrack to War gave our soldiers a rare opportunity to tell their stories about how they cope in combat. Michael Moore used footage from this documentary for his film. But this special gives a full, uncensored view of what the soldiers had to say!

 

8/1/2004

Thanks Extreme Home Makeover! You rock!

Your gift to that family of the deployed soldier was AWESOME!

It was wonderful to see that family on TV and to see such deserving folks get such a great surprise!

 

 

7/28/2004

I love stories of gratitude and random acts of kindness!

 

Passengers Give Troops First-Class Seats

DALLAS (AP) - Eight soldiers flying home from Iraq for two weeks of R&R flew in style instead of coach after first-class passengers offered to swap seats with them.

"The soldiers were very, very happy, and the whole aircraft had a different feeling," flight attendant Lorrie Gammon told The Dallas Morning News in Thursday's editions.

The June 29 seat-swap on American Airlines Flight 866 from Atlanta to Chicago started before boarding, when a businessman approached one of the soldiers and traded his seat.

When the swapping was done, "the other two first-class passengers wanted to give up their seats, too, but they couldn't find any more soldiers," Gammon said.

Another flight attendant, Candi Spradlin, said she was impressed with the acts of good will.

"If nothing else, those soldiers got a great homecoming," she said.

 

 

7/28/2004

If people continue to say they "support the troops" they MUST listen to the effect their  words are having on the soldiers. If they refuse to listen, then they cannot continue to  pretend they care. Poor morale can be a killer on the battle field and if the public is truly interested in preventing the deaths of our troops then they must bear in mind the actions  they are participating in that create dangerous situations that can lead to injury or casualty  for our troops. It's funny...I get alot of flack for saying my views are "conservative"...

I prefer to say they're humane and non-hypocritical. I really don't care whose in power,  I care about the soldiers and their families. Period. Whether you're hurting or helping them,  not your political POV, is what concerns me. I issued a statement to the press in 2003 that I would like to re-state here:

 

Statement from Michelle Ferguson-Cohen, author and illustrator of "Daddy, 

you're my hero!" and "Mommy, you're my hero!" books for children of military personnel.

"Few people can imagine how painful and frightening it is for children of our troops to cope 

with a parent at war.  Children are not unaware of the dangerous threats the enemy poses 

to their parent's lives.  The extensive media coverage ensures that children inevitably hear

directives from the Hussein regime about attacking American troops and this can be terrifying

for a child.

But when similar Anti-American statements come from their neighbors, celebrities, teachers 

and fellow American citizens, the effect on children and families is devastating. If you truly 

desire peace, let it start at home. Stop the hate speech directed at America and our troops.

As an American citizen it is your right to say whatever you wish, but it is also your 

responsibility to consider its effects.  I would hope after the abuse of soldiers and their 

families during the Vietnam war that people would have learned the difference between 

protesting war and participating in one. Our soldiers' lives are no less valuable and worthy of 

our defense than anyone else's should be. Dehumanizing and demoralizing our troops will not 

make this war go away, but it will leave a generation of American children orphaned and 

isolated and left feeling betrayed in a way no foreign enemy could ever manage."


from the National Center for Public Policy Research.

Fahrenheit 9/11 is Having "Devastating" Impact on Military Morale, Says Soldier Deployed Overseas

Soldier Says "Young and Impressionable" Soldiers Just Returned from Iraq Deployments Are "Being Made to Feel Ashamed" of Their Service


The National Center for Public Policy Research has posted online an e-mail received from a 

soldier, Spc. Joe Roche of the 1st Armored Division, who says Michael Moore's film 

Fahrenheit 9/11 is "making the rounds" among soldiers at U.S. military bases overseas and 

is "shocking and crushing soldiers, making them feel ashamed" of their service in Iraq. The 

letter has been published online by The National Center without abridgment. The full text 

can be found here. Some excerpts:

"Michael Moore's film, Fahrenheit 9/11, is making the rounds here at U.S. bases in Kuwait. Some soldiers have received it already and are passing is around. The impact is devastating. Here we are, soldiers of the 1st Armored Division, just days from finally returning home after over a year serving in Iraq, and Moore's film is shocking and crushing soldiers, making them feel ashamed. Moore has abused the First Amendment and is hurting us worse than the enemy has. There are the young and impressionable soldiers, like those who joined the Army right out of high school. They aren't familiar w/ the college-type political debate environment, and they haven't been schooled in the full range of issues involved. They are vulnerable to being hurt by a vicious film like Moore's."

"Specialist Janecek, who is feeling depressed because a close family member is nearing the end of her life, just saw the film today. I saw him in the DFAC. He is devastated. 'I feel shitty, ashamed, like this was all a lie.' Not only is he looking at going straight to a funeral when he returns home, but now whatever pride he felt for serving here has been crushed by Moore's film. Specialist Everett earlier after seeing the film: 'You'll be mad at shit for ever having come here.' And there are others. Mostly the comments are absolute shock at the close connections Moore makes between the Bush family and the Bin Laden family in Saudi Arabia. 'Bush looks really really REALLY corrupt in this film. I just don't know what to think anymore,' is a common comment to hear. Some of these soldiers are darn right ashamed tonight to be American soldiers, to have been apart of this whole mission in Iraq, and are angry over all that Moore has presented in his film."

"Right now, just days away from what should be a proud and happy return from 15 months of duty in Operation Iraqi Freedom, your U.S. soldiers are coming back ashamed and hurt because of Moore's work."

"I sometimes want to be mad at my fellow soldiers for being susceptible to Moore's distortions, but I can't really blame them. These are good Americans, who have volunteered to serve our country. Nothing says they all have to be experts in Middle Eastern issues and history and politics to serve. That would be silly. ...But this is, of course, the vulnerability that Moore has exploited."

"I wonder how damaging and shocking a Moore project would have been in the 1940s making such a video of Franklin Roosevelt."

Spc. Joe Roche serves with the 16th Engineering Battalion of the 1st Armored Division. He 

and his unit were deployed in Iraq for 15 months. An archive of his e-mails can be accessed 

at www.nationalcenter.org/RochePage.html online.

The National Center for Public Policy Research is a non-partisan, conservative/free-market think-

tank established in 1982 and located on Capitol Hill. It can be visited at 

http://www.nationalcenter.org online.

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7/26/04

Lack of Awareness makes Media/Civilians/Nation Unsupportive

I personally, don't believe that people are so uncaring they would knowingly abuse or neglect people in their community who are in need and making great sacrifices for our country. During my recent visit to the MCEC coalition I heard many stories of soldiers, children and their families being treated as second class citizens by their neighbors and communities.

For that reason and because of my experience as a military brat and child of a Vietnam Veteran, it is one of my primary missions to increase awareness of the military family experience. Here are some recent stories of need and requests for assistance by soldiers and their families.

I have deleted the contact information as these requests were made to fellow members of the military community who are working hard to respond to these requests for our forgotten soldiers and their families.

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I have recently deployed for a possible 18 month rotation with my unit. I have always been responsible in handling my finances and obligations. With this current deployment it has drained our savings. My wife is unable to work at this time and that has added some stress. I am writing to you asking for some help. I hear you are the one to ask if not please direct me as to who to email. My wife is due August 29 with our first children. She is having twins. We are very excited as well as nervous. What I need from you is help buying two cribs and carseats. We have managed to get everything else that is needed. Please keep my home address confidential from others. I may seem paranoid but while I am away I want to keep her safe. I can understand if you don not want to send her cash a gift certificate will work also. We have a target and wallmart close by to our home.

Here is my address

XXXXXXXXXXX

Thank you,

Addison

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Sir or Ma'am,
I need some help getting my children school clothes and supplies. I have a 14 year old son and 12 year old daughter. I'm deployed right now and that has put us in a hardship. I'd be more than willing to pay back money given to me to help my family out. I would appreciate it if you'd keep this information personal and not reveal who I am. Here is my wife's address.

 

XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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XXXXXXXXXX  XXXXXXXXX XXXXXXX

 

Thank you very much
SGT XXXXXXXXXX

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A deployed unit in Iraq made requests for food because the Mess Hall was closed every night 

after their long daily patrol shift which meant they weren't getting enough to eat. (the request 

detailed below is not related to this unit)

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The following remarks were made by Rep Helen Chenoweth on the House floor on 20 May

  99. . Mr. Speaker, in today's military a young enlisted person serving out his or her first 

contract can expect to make one thousand, seventy-five dollars and eighty cents a month. 

Over a forty-hour workweek, this averages to six dollars and seventy cents an hour. But 

most of our military personnel don't work forty-hour weeks. We all remember the famous 

Army slogan "We do more before 9:00 a.m. than most people do all day." Mr. Speaker, it's 

true. 

These young enlisted personnel can expect to be at work before first light and not home 

again until long after dark. And Mr. Speaker, we don't pay them overtime. These young 

people train for weeks at a time away from home. They keep themselves in a state of top 

physical readiness. They live their personal lives according to the high standards of integrity 

and honor we mandate for them. These young servicemen must uproot their families on a 

moment's notice, moving to a new duty station across the country, or across the globe. 

They do it all on six dollars and seventy cents an hour. For members of the military with 

families, the situation is worse. 

Despite a modest living allowance, 12,000 families currently serving our Armed Services 

are dependent on food stamps. Food stamps. We have government employees living off 

of government subsidies. Mr. Speaker, why don't we skip the intermediary step and just pay 

them properly the first time? During the holidays at the Mountain Home Air Force base in 

Idaho, a network of military spouses work together to collect donations of money and toys 

for the enlisted families who cannot afford to give their young ones Christmas or 

Thanksgiving. Last November and December, the Mountain Home Warm Heart organization, 

run by the spouses of servicemen, distributed over eighteen thousand dollars worth of food, 

toys and cash to needy military families. Where did this money come from, Mr. Speaker? 

From the pockets of servicemen who already had very little to give. If this were not bad 

enough, many military families have more serious concerns than just Christmas and 

Thanksgiving. At the Mountain Home Air Force Base, 459 women and children are receiving 

regular food assistance. 107 of those are infants. The Mountain Home Air Force Aid Society 

made $131,000 in emergency assistance loans to military families I am very concerned about 

what will happen to these families when the money runs out and they still have to make 

monthly payments on the loans. In the 18th Century, citizen soldiers won our independence 

and secured our liberties. We hailed them as heroes and revered the courage and 

commitment they demonstrated in defense of our nation. Today that nation is protected by 

citizen soldiers with the same integrity and sense of duty. Only in 20th Century America, 

we don't even pay them a living wage. We should be ashamed of ourselves. From 1988 to 

today there have been thirty-two deployments of our military. In the previous sixty years 

there were only ten deployments. Put another way, Mr. Speaker, prior to this Administration, 

the military was deployed an average of once every six years. During the Clinton 

Administration the military has been deployed an average of four times every year. 

Furthermore, since 1987, we have depleted our ranks by eight hundred thousand 

servicemen. In practical terms, that translates into more frequent deployments and 

dangerously long hours. 

It is illegal in this country for truck drivers to be on the road longer than eight consecutive 

hours without rest. We have pilots patrolling the Mediterranean in fourteen hour shifts. In 

short, this Administration is expecting our servicemen to do one hundred times as much and 

place their lives at risk one hundred times as often with eight hundred thousand fewer 

people. For as little as six dollars and seventy cents per hour. Mr. Speaker I recently paid a 

plumber $90 an hour to unstop my garbage disposal. An auto mechanic can expect $50 an 

hour. A teenager working as a bagger in a grocery store can earn up to $12 dollars an hour. 

None of these jobs require 24-hour dedication to duty and a constant threat to life. Mr. 

Speaker, one young Marine I know of has taken a second job to supplement his income. 

Every night, this Lance Corporal goes home and trades his Marine uniform for a blue 

and red t-shirt and matching hat from Dominoes. This young Marine, this hardworking 

father of two, delivers pizza because he is too proud to accept welfare. He is not 

alone in this endeavor. But it is nearly impossible to know how many young servicemen 

are in this position because most of them hide it from their commanders. A young Lance 

Corporal serving in the Marine Corps today can anticipate being combat-deployed at least 

once in a four-year enlistment. I wonder what this Lance Corporal's family will do when he 

is away and they have to make do without the supplemental income from Dominoes. I am 

humbled by this young Marine, and the many others like him who work so hard to protect us.

I am ashamed that we don't do right by them. I urge this body to seriously consider the 

ethics of our government's continued overextension of our military in light of our complete 

lack of gratitude for their service. 

Mr. Speaker, I have a request to make of the members of this body. Tonight when you go 

home to your families, to the security and comfort of your homes; when you tuck your 

children in to bed; say a prayer for the men and women of our armed forces. As you sleep, 

approximately one-hundred thousand of them stand watch, away from their own loved ones, 

ready to give their very lives to protect you. For as little as six dollars and seventy cents an 

hour.

 

Response to Washington Times Article "Our GIs earn enough"

On 12 Jan, MS, Cindy Williams wrote a piece for the > Washington Times denouncing the pay raise(s) coming  service members' way this year, citing that the stated 13%  wage gap was bogus. A young airman from Hill AFB  responds to her article below.   Ms. Williams:  I just had the pleasure of reading your column of 12 Jan 00,  "Our GI's earn enough," and I am a bit confused. Frankly,  I'm wondering where this vaunted overpayment is going,  because as far as I can tell, it disappears every month  between DFAS (The Defense Finance and Accounting Service)  and my bank account. Checking my latest leave and earnings statement (LES), I see that I make $1,117.80, before taxes.  After taxes, I take home  $874.20. When I run that through  Windows' Calculator, I come up with an annual salary of  $13,413.60 before taxes, and $10,490.40 after. I work in  the Air Force Network Control Center (AFNCC), where I am  part of the team responsible for the administration of a 25,000 host computer network. I am involved with infrastructure  segments, specifically with Cisco Systems equipment.   A quick check under jobs for Network Technicians in the  Washington, DC area reveals a position in my career field,  requiring three years experience with my job. 

 

Amazingly,  this job does NOT pay $13,413.60 a year, nor does it pay less  than this. No, this job is being offered at $70,000 to 80,000  per annum. I'm sure you can draw the obvious conclusions.   Also, you tout increases to Basic Allowance for Housing and  Basic Allowance for Subsistence (housing and food allowances,  respectively) as being a further boon to an already overcompensated  force. Again, I'm curious as to where this money has gone,  as BAH and BAS were both slashed 15% in the Hill AFB area  effective in January 00. Given the tenor of your column, I would  assume that you have NEVER had the pleasure of serving your country in her armed forces. Before you take it upon yourself  to once more castigate congressional and DOD leadership for  attempting to get the families in the military's lowest  pay brackets  off AFDC, WIC, and food stamps, I suggest that you join a group  of deploying  soldiers headed for Saudi - I leave the choice of  service branch up to you. Whatever choice you make, though,  opt for the SIX month rotation: it will guarantee you the longest possible time away from your family and friends, thus giving  you the full "deployment experience."   As your group prepares to board the plane, make sure to note  the spouses and children who are saying good-bye to their  loved ones. Also take care to note that several families are still unsure of how they'll be able to make end meet while  the primary breadwinner is gone, obviously they've been  squandering the vast piles of cash the DOD has been giving  them. 

Try to deploy over a major holiday; Christmas and  Thanksgiving are perennial favorites. And when you're  actually over there, sitting in a DFP (Defensive Fire Position,  the modern day foxhole), shivering against the cold desert  night, and the flight sergeant tells you that there aren't enough  people on shift to relieve you for chow, remember this: trade  whatever MRE you manage to get for the tuna noodle  casserole or cheese tortellini, and add Tabasco to everything.  Talk to your loved ones as often as you are permitted; it won't  nearly be long enough or often 

enough, but take what you can  get and be thankful for it. You may have picked up on the fact  that I disagree with most of the points you present in your  op-ed piece. But, tomorrow from Sarajevo, I will defend to  the death your right to say it. You see, I am an American  fighting man, a guarantor of your First Amendment rights  and every other right you cherish. On a daily basis, my brother  and sister soldiers worldwide ensure that you and people  like you can thumb your collective noses at us, all on a salary  that is nothing short of pitiful and under conditions that would  make most people cringe. We hemorrhage our best and  brightest into the private sector because we can't offer the  stability and pay of civilian companies. And you, Ms. Williams,  have the gall to say that we make more than we deserve? ]  Rubbish!  A1C Michael Bragg Hill AFB AFNCC .

 

 

7/24/04

 

I recently appeared at the Military Child Education Coalition Conference in Denver. While I  was there I had the opportunity to meet wonderful people who share our mission to provide equal educational opportunities to children of military personnel

 

By Rudi Williams American Forces Press Service COLORADO SPRINGS, Colo., July 22, 2004 -- "Yours is a noble calling — to be a voice for the unsung partners in America's national defense, our military children," said Lea Ann Edwards, wife of Texas Congressman Chet Edwards, at the Military Child Education Coalition sixth annual conference here July 21. "There are no Medals of Honor given to our military children, but time and again our nation asks them to sacrifice above and beyond the call of duty," Edwards told conference attendees. More than 450 educators, administrators, military leaders, parents and students from around the world gathered for the annual conference. The coalition is a non-profit national and international organization that serves children wherever the military family is located around the world. It focuses on the highly mobile military child and his or her educational opportunities. 

 

This year's theme, "Pioneering for Children," centers on making a difference in the lives of military children who serve and sacrifice for the nation in a unique way. "I have often wondered how one puts a price on a young student being asked to leave his or her best friends and favorite school because duty calls their family away?" Edwards said. "And then to do it again, and again and again. There are no make-up days when moms or dads miss recitals, baseball games and graduations. "And those are the sacrifices our military children make in times of peace," Edwards noted. She said in times of war when parents are in harm's way that the sacrifice of separation and the fears of mom or dad never coming home are a cost of combat that can never be fully measured. She pointed out that the nation sets aside Veterans Day and Memorial Day to honor the sacrifices of those who have served the nation in uniform. Perhaps, she said, Congress should designate a Military Child Day. "Not as a national holiday," she said, "but as a day when our nation could honor those too young to serve, but not too young to share the sacrifice of protecting the American family." Edwards said she was humbled and inspired to be with so many caring individuals who honor military children every day with their time, service and love. "Having visited so many families at Fort Hood (Texas), I know our military children deserve all we can do for them and much more," she said. "You will continue to be at the vanguard of that effort, and I salute you for your caring leadership." 

 

Edwards pointed out that she and her husband have seen two wartime deployments of Fort Hood soldiers to Iraq. "We've seen the tears of deployment, the unbridled joy of homecomings and the challenge of family readjustment," Edwards said. "We've shared in the happiness of small children seeing and talking to their deployed moms and dads by video conferences. We have also felt the unspeakable sorrow of 25-year-old military widows cuddling babies who will never be held by their fathers." She said that's why they feel so strongly that Congress has a solemn responsibility to support military children. "Unfortunately, the truth is that military family issues don't always receive the high priority they deserve in Congress," Edwards said. Edwards said reasons include only 29 percent of House members and 39 percent of senators are veterans. She said the percentages are decreasing with each new Congress, which means fewer members know firsthand the challenges facing military families. 

 

Another reason is the closing of military installations under the Defense Department's Base Realignment and Closing, or BRAC, Edwards said. Noting that another BRAC is slated for 2005, she said that means even fewer House members will have military installations in their districts and fewer senators will have them in their states. A third reason is "legions of lobbyists in Washington, D.C., supporting multibillion dollar procurement programs, but very few voices there speaking up for military families and children," she said. The Pentagon understands the importance of taking care of military families, Edwards said. She added that issues such as housing, health care, day care and education often take a back seat, because commanders must first fund procurement and training budgets that have an immediate impact on readiness. Impact-aid education funding faces even another barrier, because, she said, it's funded by the Department of Education, an agency where military children are not necessarily the first priority. But she did note that "since 1995, impact aid funding has increased from $728 million to $1.23 billion." 

 

Edwards called the coalition "a strong voice, a vital voice, for children whose needs might otherwise go unheard." "By bringing education, community and military leaders together, you directly address many problems without needing congressional involvement," she said. She said it's impossible for her to match MCEC's service to military children, but she considers it a privilege to be able to select MCEC as the charity of the year for the First Lady's Luncheon, where she was delivering her speech. This marked the 94th year the luncheon was hosted by the Congressional Club, a nonpartisan organization made up of spouses of current and former members of Congress. "In honoring Mrs. Bush, our theme was 'A Salute to Our Military and Their Families,'" Edwards noted. "Every person at the luncheon was impressed when Mrs. Bush spoke so eloquently about the tremendous work you do through the Military Child Education Coalition. When Mrs. Bush described the incredible sacrifices of our military families, I could not help but think about one of those families." Edwards talked about how overwhelmed she and her husband were on Sept. 1, 2003, when they visited soldiers from Fort Hood, Texas, at Walter Reed Army Medical Center in Washington who had been wounded in Iraq. She said the first soldier they met was Sgt. Robert Armstrong.

 

"Gunny Armstrong was protecting a children's hospital near Baghdad when 

insurgents attacked him with grenades," Edwards said. "He was badly wounded and lost one eye and a leg. Gunny lost so much blood that his heart stopped beating five times. The Army was so sure he would die that they gave him an immediate medical retirement to increase his wife's and children's benefits upon his death. "But Gunny Armstrong didn't die," Edwards noted. "As he was going in and out of consciousness, 

literally on the edge of life and death, he kept mentioning the name Mary, Mary, Mary. Army doctors and medics didn't know who Mary was and assumed he was just hallucinating. "It turns out that Mary was his 15-year-old daughter back in Killeen, Texas, and this loving father had made a promise to his daughter: that he would come home from Iraq to see her again," she said. "As he barely clung to life thousands of miles away from his family, Gunny Armstrong's love of his family and his promise to his daughter gave him the will to live when others had lost hope," Edwards said. Edwards said she was in the hospital room when Mary walked in with her brother and saw her father for the first time in five months. "When Gunny's wife saw Mary, she turned to her daughter and said, 'You see, Mary, I told you. Your father always keeps his promises.'" 

 

She then showed a video of the emotions, tears and hugs of love of service members and their spouses and children when service members deploy to Iraq and Afghanistan. "When I  see this video, I realize our nation can never fully repay our military families for the sacrifices  they make for the American family," Edwards said. "But, tonight, when I go home to be with my two young sons, I will thank God for Gunny Armstrong and his family and for millions of other military families, past and present, who have protected our nation with their unselfish service and sacrifice." Related Site: Military Child Education Coalition [http://www.militarychild.org/]  Lea  Ann Edwards, left, chats with Joyce Thomas of the Bossier City, La., school district, after  delivering the keynote speech at the Military Child Education Coalition sixth annual conference in Colorado Springs, Colo., July 21. Photo by Rudi Williams

 

 

 

7/27/04

Military Families 

Election Year Politics

Like most people in military culture I'm a proud American, but also a citizen of the world. Like 

most, I'm a seeker of truth.  

 

Seems that words like "our brave troops" and "our proud soldiers" are being bandied about an 

awful lot by people who aren't putting their money where their mouths are. 

 

Personally, I would appreciate if all the politicians and politico wannabes like Michael Moore 

stopped using our soldiers and their families as an excuse to promote their political agendas 

without any follow through to care for our soldiers.  

 

I have yet to see any of these people make any substantial contribution or thank you toward our 

soldiers, their families or their children.  Millions are spent on protests, media campaigns and 

election campaigns and NOTHING is given to our troops and their families who are struggling 

to survive hardship and stress. Once again, ideals are priorities before people.

 

Stop using the military families as pawns and start showing your respect by listening to our 

soldiers and honoring their work.

 

If you people care so much about our fallen soldiers and their families, then help put their 

children through school, let them tell their stories and stop making them invisible except for 

your purposes.

 

So, Michael Moore, since you keep saying you are motivated by your concern for the 

children of our country called to war, then perhaps you can spare a good chunk of that 

$100 million toward the families you are using to make your point.

 

I'm open to giving everyone who says they "support the troops" and then does NOTHING to 

show that support the opportunity to do so. 

 

If you're not sure how to do that, please contact me at booksforbrats@aol.com and I'll be 

happy to put you in touch with a number of worthwhile organizations who do work to benefit 

our soldiers and their families.

- Michelle Ferguson-Cohen

 

 

7/21/04

Military Families & The Media

by Michelle Ferguson-Cohen

Ferguson-Cohen has 15 years experience as a media relations professional

 

One of our missions is to help encourage proper representation of the military community and 

especially military families in the media.

 

We feel our books go some way to helping military families see their experience represented 

in bookstores and on library shelves.

 

Of course, it was necessary for us to establish this publishing company because there were 

no other mainstream publishing companies interested in representing this community.  In 

fact, we were told so by several representatives of major publishing companies.

 

Since establishing this company, we have continued to be confronted with the bias and 

limitations of broadcast media and the news.  We have also heard from many soldiers and 

their families about their discouragement regarding the media and it's representation and lack of representation of military community.

 

Of course, we are always looking for ways to encourage the media to educate themselves 

about this population and to cover more varied and reality-based stories of military families 

that incorporate more of the day-to-day survival stories.

 

As with any diversity education, we believe that the more the population at large knows 

about the military community the more compassionate, and supportive they will be, 

particularly at stressful times like this.  Most military families have difficulties surviving the 

stress of deployment, but they are proud and make the sacrifice. They never expect 

rewards, but at the least, they should receive some acknowledgement from their fellow 

citizens for their contribution.and indeed the support they need from their communities to 

survive the difficulties of a deployment

 

We believe Americans would care, if they had greater understanding. They would have 

greater understanding through greater exposure to military families and their experience.  

We can help enlighten our fellow citizens through proper representation in the media.  There 

is so much that happens other than the departures and arrivals of troops.

 

Some of the issues the media has with its representation of the military population have to 

do with issues the media faces in its reporting, programming, business model and general 

nature.  

 

We have identified the following challenges (and a couple of solutions) for the media:

 

1)    The military has a racially diverse population. 

Proper demographic representation of race has long been an issues in the news and media.  The mass media has been slow in its news reporting and entertainment programming to represent the diversity of the American population.  

2)    Media's lack of awareness of the consumer power of the military   population

The media is powered by advertisement. It is incumbent upon media outlets to ensure their advertisers are being served by the most useful demographics.

 

Though there are soldiers struggling with poverty, the average active duty military families' income is 7.4% higher than the average Americans income*.  In addition, the purchase power of the the military population or "Military City" as identified by www.militarycity.com ranks between New York and LA in terms of income and population*.   In addition, ranking first among all markets with a whopping 74% of its population in the much desired 18-34 demo, it's percentage far outranks  the second rated city LA with 29%. So, lack of advertiser interest shouldn't be an issue in terms of media support.

 

We would be remiss not to point out that National Guard and reservist families suffer additional financial hardships because of an eliminated civilian paycheck, job loss and lack of civilian community support.

 

For our part, we heard over and over again from publishers and media organizations that there was not an audience for our book or for any media coverage of military families.  In fact, as for our readership, there are 1.3 million children of active duty military alone. As for our total audience, we believe that number to be doubled if you include children of National Guard and Reservists, nieces, nephews, foster children and step-children who are affected by the deployment of a soldier.  Of course, we also believe ALL children our are audience, as mutual respect and awareness of our country's diversity is key!

3)    The association of political motivations with the military and political bias

The military is not a political organization.  Many members of the press have argued that case with us and we were shocked by their perception of the military as political.  Many media members do not understand that soldier's mission is to follow the orders of an elected government, not determine policy.

 

The military is a service organization in the power of the government of the United States.  Though its Commander-in-Chief is the President who is elected by the population at large, the military has no power as a political entity.  Sometimes, mistakenly, members of the media believe a positive representation of the military community would not benefit or serve their own personal political affiliations or those of their organization.  

 

Of course, our perspective is that even if someone felt they had a political barrier to objective reporting, that it is inappropriate and sad to make children the brunt of that. We are committed to the service of children affected by war regardless of the politics.  

4)   The disconnect from the military and media perception as "the other"

Because we have a volunteer force and Americans are not obligated to serve their country, the military community comes from pockets of the country's demographics instead of a varied range of the population.  It's fairly common that members of the media weren't socialized, educated or in a community with people in the military or other public service organizations, and therefore, like many Americans, feel a disconnect with the service organization that defends, protects and represents them.  In an increasingly classist society, this will continue to be a problem

5)    Ratings! Ratings! Ratings!

Sometimes the media feels it needs a sensationalist story to make it worth their while. This is why most of the rare coverage of military families focuses on the dramatic departures and arrivals of deploying soldiers.  Frankly, the daily humdrum, difficulties and crises of military life are as uninteresting to the media as the struggles of other public service personnel or everyday people. The stories that really need to be told aren't quite as dramatic as ones the mass media might be interested in...like JLo's latest wedding!

 

Michelle Ferguson-Cohen

*All numbers courtesy of  www.MilitaryCity.com  

if you wish to reproduce this article or any other item from www.booksforbrats.net please 

credit and acknowledge the copyright of author Michelle Ferguson-Cohen and www.booksforbrats.net

New Study First Step Toward Help for Military Families in Crisis

 

The military is not immune to increasing problems in the general population with abuse, 

violence and addiction. Identifying problems is the first step to ensuring help is on the way

 

We believe the transient nature of the military and the unique and constant stress on 

military families makes children especially vulnerable to abuse and neglect, especially 

because it is difficult to identify those in trouble in a population that is largely "invisible" to 

the mainstream world.  We are very excited about the Army's plan to survey these issues 

and hope it's a first step to more involved family support and programs!

 

RTI International to Study Family Violence and Substance Abuse in the Military

RESEARCH TRIANGLE PARK, N.C. -- As part of an effort to reduce the incidence of 

family violence and substance abuse in the military, RTI International has been 

awarded a $1.4 million U.S. Army contract to study the co-occurrence of substance 

abuse, child abuse, and spousal abuse among service members and their families.

The study will be used by Army officials to identify opportunities to improve the 

linkages between programs that identify, prevent, and treat family violence and 

substance abuse in the military and to make these services more accessible to Army 

families."The military is a reflection of society," said principal investigator Deborah Gibbs 

of RTI's Health, Social, and Economics Research. "So it is not surprising that military 

families experience domestic violence and substance abuse, especially if one 

considers the unique stressors military families face, such as deployments and 

disruption of social ties."

These stressors may contribute to the co-occurrence of substance abuse, spousal 

abuse, and child abuse, Gibbs said. People who work in the fields of spousal abuse, 

child abuse, and substance abuse have long believed that the three problems are 

intertwined, but it has been difficult to understand the extent or nature of the 

correlation.

Gibbs said this study will lead to a better understanding of the interactions and that 

such information will be useful in reducing the effects of family violence and 

substance abuse within the military. She added that understanding gained through 

this study will also be applicable in many ways to service delivery systems in civilian 

society. Gibbs will be assisted in the research project by RTI International's Monique Clinton-Sherrod and Sandra Martin of UNC's School of Public Health.

The study is scheduled for completion in 2007.

RTI News Media Contacts
  Email: news@rti.org
  Kathy Pitts: 919-990-8388
  Patrick Gibbons: 919-541-6136
  PO Box 12194
  Research Triangle Park, NC 27709-2194

 

7/12/04

I thought this article was very well-written and addressed the issues based on fact.

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE

Thomas D. Segel
Tomsegel@joimail.com
(956) 423 3126

And The Media Says, "We Support Our Military"
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Harlingen, Texas, July 10, 2004:Their names are Mark E. Mitchell, Jason Dean
Cunningham, Joseph B. Perez and Stephen Bass.  Chances are you have no idea
of who these men are or what they accomplished.  You can look them up on the
Internet.  A Goggle search will show you Cunningham¹s name on 5 entries.
Perez will appear 4 times, Mitchell 3 times and Bass twice.

Now try these names"Lynndie England, Charles Graner Jr., Jeremy Sivits and
Ivan Frederick II.  They may seem very familiar" and they should. According
the Kate O¹Beirne, writing for the National Review Online, ABC, NBC and CBS
combined have run more than 200 stories on them and the other three abusers
of Iraqi detainees in Abu Ghraib Prison.  In addition there were more than
40 page one stories about them on the front page of the New York Times and
their names made headlines in almost every major daily publication in the
country.  Using the Google search engine to scan the Internet will show you
another 377,000 entries about their deplorable activities inside the walls
of that prison.  All of this combines to make their names and faces the only
recognizable pictures of how the world now sees the men and women of
America¹s armed forces.

That quick review of press coverage should dispel any doubts people have
about the built-in bias of the media.  Electronic and print media alike can
protest loudly that no such bias exists, but the numbers shown here are
stark testimony to the falseness of such statements.

It is true that Abu Ghraib Prison and its abuse perpetrators make an
important story, but the disproportionate weighting of that happening
against the actions of Bass, Cunningham, Mitchell and Perez are impossible
to understand.  What these men did was praiseworthy at every level "and
remember that Google search showed their names were only in print a combined
total of 14 times.

Navy Chief Petty Officer Stephen Bass, a member of a rescue team was sent to
locate and recover two missing American citizens at the Quala-I-Jangi
fortress in Afghanistan.  Once he moved toward the fortress, Bass was
constantly fired upon by the enemy.  He was forced to walk through an
anti-personnel minefield to gain entry.  He then had to crawl through
withering fire to reach the uninjured citizen.  He was forced to withdraw,
but reported his findings to his team, which then went in search of the
second man.  As darkness fell, he again tried to make the rescue.  Without
fear for his own personal safety Bass moved into the heart of the fortress,
under constant enemy fire.  His own ammunition gone, he used the weapon of a
fallen enemy to return fire.  Chief Bass finally was able to locate and
verify the condition of the injured citizen.

In the same operation, Army Major Mark E. Mitchell was the ground force
commander of the rescue team.  He showed unparalled courage under fire,
decisive leadership and personal sacrifice, which were directly responsible
for the success of the rescue mission and instrumental in ensuring the city
of Mazar-e-Sharif did no fall back into the hands of the Taliban.  His
actions contributed to American forces holding their objective even while
under heavy enemy fire.  By his engagement of the enemy, he assured the
freedom of one American and the posthumous recovery of another.

Senior Airman Jason D. Cunningham was a Search and Rescue medic assigned to
the Quick Reaction Force.  Sent to rescue two American servicemen who were
evading capture in terrain occupied by Al Qaida, his helicopter was hit by
enemy fire and disabled, causing it to crash land. A hasty defense was
formed, but his force quickly received three fatalities and five critical
casualties.  Despite heavy enemy fire Cunningham remained in the burning
fuselage of the aircraft treating the wounded men. He then exposed himself
to enemy fire as he moved the wounded to a more secure location.  When that
protected position was compromised, Cunningham braved enemy fire seven times
to relocate his wounded to a third collection point.  Even after being
mortally wounded he continued to direct patient movement and transferred
their care to another medic.  In the end, his efforts resulted in saving the
gravely wounded Americans, but at the cost of his own life.